✨ Redemption: A Glimpse into the New Back Cover!

 

Everyone dies.

It doesn’t matter if you’re a king living it up in a grand palace or a slum dweller fighting for survival in a cardboard shack – no one is exempt. Death comes for us all in the end.

But what if death isn’t the end? What if it is just a link in a reincarnation chain that spans centuries and millennia? What if all of us are trapped in an endless cycle of lives, doomed to suffer and die over and over again? Wouldn’t you want to break free?

Some of us do.

Our readers love Redemption!

 

Time Slips Away: Redemption - A Novel of Reincarnation

• "The novel takes you from near future Chicago deep to the dark stone ages and back... precise with historical details." - Antti Niskanen

• "An enjoyable sci-fi/philosophical novel, taking the reader to the past and future through a series of past lives... What is the purpose of life is the overall question, which is answered at the end in a surprising way." - T J Pyke

• "An intricately weaved tale... a roller coaster ride of a woman travelling through the sands of time, seeking the truth veiled within her tumultuous past and finally attaining redemption by embracing her inner spirituality." - Farhan

 🤩 I am so excited about the upcoming release!

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New Year's Party in the Between-Lives Realm: Soul Resolutions for 2025 and Beyond 🎉👻✨📝

The Cosmic Soul Lounge

Picture a cosmic lounge where souls gather between incarnations—some fresh from their last life, others anxiously awaiting their next adventure. The ambiance is timeless (literally!), with stardust cocktails floating by and ethereal music playing in the background.

Conversations Sparkle

Hellfire: Not recommended for sensitive souls

As the party gets livelier, conversations begin to sparkle.

"Next time, I won't invest my entire life in black magic!" declares a young soul, fanning itself with an imaginary fan. "The hellfire is way too hot for my taste!"

Lessons Learned the Hard Way

A spiritual growth doesn't require sacrificing human experience

A more mature soul, adjusting its airy metaphysical robes, muses: "I promise not to become a zealot again—last time I was so serious about everything, I forgot to enjoy the simple pleasures of being human. Plus, those medieval rags made of coarse cloth were really itchy!"

Dating Disasters: Cosmic Edition

We've all made dating mistakes, but this one takes the (wedding) cake

Near the cosmic punch bowl, a particularly exasperated soul with an ugly scar around its neck sighs: "This time around, I'll actually listen to my intuition. In my previous life, I ignored all the signs telling me not to marry Henry VIII. Big mistake. HUGE mistake!"

The Importance of Balance

"No more procrastinating on spiritual growth by saying 'I'll do it next time,' as that's always spread to the next life, and from that one to another one—and I've been saying that for the last twelve incarnations!"

The Mirror of Souls Pact

Seeking understanding through shared experience

In a quiet corner of the lounge, a profound exchange unfolds. A group of souls who were systematically dehumanized gather with those who perpetuated their suffering, proposing a Mirror of Souls Pact: "In the next life, we will exchange places. You will look in the mirror and see our faces, experience the world through our eyes."

Free Will and the Path to Redemption

Some of the souls will break the cycle of rebirths and find redemption

Beneath these lighthearted exchanges and solemn agreements lie deeper truths about attachment, addiction, hubris, and ego—the very challenges that shape our spiritual growth. Even with such contracts, souls retain their free will. Some will break the cycle of oppression and find redemption, while others may succumb to the temptations of false pride and power.

Breaking the Reincarnation Cycle

Some will attain liberation from the cycle of reincarnation.

The Cosmic Joke

And here's the cosmic joke: even our mistakes and seemingly wrong choices contribute to our evolution. After all, what's a few millennia of learning compared to eternal wisdom?

So as we stand on the threshold of 2025, perhaps we can take a page from this celestial celebration. While we may not remember the resolutions from our past lives, each New Year offers a fresh canvas for growth. Here's to making this incarnation count—one spiritual lesson and a dash of cosmic humor at a time—lighting the path to evolution and liberation.

About the Author

Jacklyn A. Lo is the author of "Redemption," exploring the spiritual awakening of an AI executive who chooses light over power, and "Melissa," a tale of a brilliant biophysicist Nathan whose arrogance leads him to crucial life lessons. 

Both novels delve into themes of spiritual evolution, free will, and the transformative power of self-awareness. These works reflect the author's interest in how souls navigate their paths between pride and humility, artificial and authentic, ultimately finding their way to higher consciousness.

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Warmth, Joy, & Creative Sparks 💡✨

The solstice shadows, long and deep, 

Where 'Melissa's' chill, my soul did keep.❄️ 

Then Hamlet's call, a challenge bold, 

A story waiting to unfold. 📖 

With every line, a seed was sown,

By beta readers, wisdom shown. ✨

Now winter's grace, a gentle hand,

Where inspiration fills the land.

May warmth and peace your spirits find,

As stories bloom within your mind.🌷 

A season's peace, a writer's dream,

May joy and wonder softly gleam. 🌟

This holiday season, I'm filled with gratitude for the journey, the lessons learned, and the stories yet to be told. 

May this winter bring you moments of warmth, joy, and quiet inspiration that fuels creativity. 💡

Wishing You All a Season of Peace and Wonder.  🕊️

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Why Pride? 🤔 Part X: The Downfall of Group Hubris 📉

Pride is not confined to individuals—it can also manifest powerfully at the group and national levels, often with more devastating consequences than one individual. 

When unchecked, group pride can transform from a source of motivation into a destructive force that breeds extreme hostility, conflict, and ultimately, self-destruction.

The Downside of Collective Pride

The lower collective consciousness a group has, the more likely its pride will swell into a toxic environment ready to be a breeding ground for conflict. This phenomenon is well acknowledged throughout the history of humankind and unfortunately persists on our planet.

Terrorism: Ideology Fueled by Distorted Pride

The September 11, 2001, terrorist attacks on the Twin Towers in New York City represent a grim testament to how false pride can nourish extreme ideologies. 

The perpetrators believed their actions were justified, driven by a distorted sense of pride that elevated their cause above human lives. This tragic event illustrates how group identity, when warped by extreme pride, can lead to unimaginable destruction.

Social Injustice: Pride as a Mechanism of Oppression

In societies where women's rights remain fragile, "honor killings" demonstrate the most horrific manifestation of group pride. Families committing violence to "preserve" their reputation reveals how collective pride can become a tool of systematic oppression of one human against another. 

Women are brutalized not for their actions, but for challenging a group's rigid perception of honor and acceptable behavior of a member of the group.

Urban Conflict: Territorial Pride and Gang Violence

In many urban environments, gang violence epitomizes pride's destructive potential. Territorial disputes become battlegrounds where perceived honor is defended through violence. 

Each confrontation reinforces a cycle of aggression, with pride serving as the primary fuel for continued conflict.

Sports: When Confidence Becomes Complacency

The 2004 U.S. Olympic men's basketball team provides a compelling snapshot of how pride precedes a fall. The "Dream Team," comprised of NBA superstars, entered the competition with an assumption of inevitable victory. 

Their shocking defeat by Puerto Rico in the opening game and subsequent in only bronze medal finish exposed the dangers of unexamined confidence, i.e. illustrating the dangers of group hubris.

The Delicate Balance: Pride vs. Humility

While these examples highlight pride's destructive potential, it's crucial to recognize that group identity isn't inherently negative. 

The key lies in maintaining a delicate balance between justified pride, humbleness, and self-reflection which could be dramatically improved by a collective consciousness that is open to growth. 

Click on the Link to find out more about the development of consciousness.

Healthy group pride can:

• Motivate collective action
• Foster community resilience
• Drive positive social change
• Celebrate shared achievements

The key thing is whether that group's consciousness remains open to growth, feedback, and continuous improvement.

Conclusion: A Call for Conscious Collective Identity

True strength emerges not from unbridled pride, but from a nuanced understanding of our collective strengths and limitations. Groups and societies must cultivate an identity.

Author Bio

Jacklyn A. Lo is a writer who explores the destructive potential of unchecked pride through compelling narratives that blur the boundaries between science, faith, and human pride. 

Her novel "Melissa" delves deep into the consequences of hubris, following a brilliant biophysicist whose arrogance leads to a terrifying experiment that challenges the very limits of scientific and moral boundaries.

With thanks to:

• Gemini for its insightful proofreading
• Claude for helping with the samples
• NightCafe: for Art creation
• OIE: for animations

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🏴‍☠️ Hamlet's Last Choice: A Journey Through Medieval Scandinavia 👑

 

"To be, or not to be, that is the question:

Whether 'tis nobler in the mind to suffer

The slings and arrows of outrageous fortune,

Or to take Arms against a Sea of troubles,

And by opposing end them..." 

- William Shakespeare

A Realm on the Edge of Chaos

Journey back to late Medieval Scandinavia, a time of shifting power, religious turmoil, and daring exploration.

An Epic of Human Passions

This era of upheaval serves as the backdrop for my novel "Hamlet's Last Choice" – a story of Revenge and Justice, Love and Loss, Fate and Free Will, Power and Corruption.

The Dance of Kingdoms

In the harsh beauty of the sixteenth-century North, three kingdoms – Denmark, Norway, and Sweden – danced an eternal waltz of power and betrayal. Denmark, jewel of the North Sea, held its neighbors in check through mastery of vital sea routes, while Norway and Sweden circled like hungry wolves, forever seeking advantage.

The North Sea: Highway of Intrigue

The North Sea itself was both highway and battlefield, its gray waters churned by merchant vessels and pirate ships alike. Some of these pirates were more than mere brigands; they were the shadow hands of kings, carrying out their masters' will with cutlass and torch while courts maintained a facade of innocence.

A Prince's Escape

For a young prince like Hamlet, the call of such a life represented more than an adventure – it was an escape from court intrigue, a path of raw freedom and potential redemption.

Calling All Historical Thriller Enthusiasts! 🕵️‍♂️📖

Are you a reader who craves immersive historical narratives that blend intrigue, political machinations, and the raw human struggle for survival? "Hamlet's Last Choice" promises a gripping journey into the treacherous world of medieval Scandinavia, where every page turns like a blade's edge between fate and choice.

Exciting Developments

Current BETA shift: In the final stages of completion 

📚 Next BETA Rendering Program: Launching late January 2025 

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Ideal for fans of:

• Complex historical narratives
• Political intrigue
• Maritime adventures
• Psychological depth
• Reimagined historical perspectives

Join us and become part of a select group of readers who will help shape this extraordinary narrative!

With thanks to:

• Gemini for its insightful proofreading
• Claude for a quote suggestion
• NightCafe: for Art creation
• OIE: for animations

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Uncover the Dark Secrets of "Melissa" 😱: Final Hours of the Black Friday Horror Deal!

Uncover the Dark Secrets of "Melissa" 

"Melissa" Receives Rave Reviews from Early Readers!

Truly gripping work from start to finish. Jacklyn A. Lo has crafted a memorable, haunting climax to this story that lives up to the intensity of the preceding chapters. I have no doubt this novel will leave an indelible mark on readers.

- ARC Reader

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Why Pride. Part IX: Accountability: A Cornerstone of True Pride

A true test of character: Rising to the occasion

The Nature of True Pride

"The ultimate measure of a person is not where they stand in moments of comfort and convenience, but where they stand at times of challenge and controversy." These words from Martin Luther King Jr. capture the essence of accountability - a crucial element that distinguishes true pride from mere arrogance.

True pride is not about self-aggrandizement but about balanced self-awareness. It demands accountability, and a willingness to own both successes and failures. This self-regulation prevents pride from spiraling into destructive arrogance.

Leadership Under Fire: The BP Crisis

A lesson from the Deepwater Horizon disaster

The 2010 Deepwater Horizon disaster provides a compelling case study in accountability and leadership.

Tony Hayward, then CEO of British Petroleum (BP), faced the greatest environmental disaster in U.S. marine history - an oil spill that claimed 11 lives, released 4.9 million barrels of oil, and devastated the Gulf of Mexico ecosystem. 

The Power of Accountability

From crisis to redemption: A journey of accountability

Tony Hayward's initial response to this disaster was marked by insensitivity. His infamous comment, "I'd like my life back," while Gulf Coast communities suffered, highlighted a disconnect between leadership and accountability. 

However, he ultimately chose accountability over ego. By stepping down as CEO, Hayward demonstrated that true pride includes the humility to recognize when change is necessary.

His departure paved the way for a humble reset at BP focused on deep accountability and atonement. This example shows how accepting responsibility, even at a personal cost, can help regulate unchecked organizational pride.

Another Example for Responsibility: Mary Barra's Leadership at GM

In contrast, General Motors CEO Mary Barra's handling of the 2014 ignition switch crisis. Upon discovering a serious defect that led to multiple fatalities, Barra took immediate accountability. 

She testified before Congress, met with victims' families, and implemented sweeping changes to GM's safety culture. Instead of stepping down, she leveraged accountability to transform the organization. 

Her actions demonstrated that true leadership involves not only accepting responsibility but also taking proactive steps to prevent future harm.

Conclusion

True pride, anchored in accountability, creates a foundation for sustainable success. 

Whether through stepping aside like Hayward or leading transformation like Barra, accountability remains the cornerstone that prevents pride from becoming hubris. In an era where corporate responsibility faces increasing scrutiny, this lesson becomes ever more relevant for modern leaders and organizations.

Hubris in Fiction

In my novel "Melissa," Nathan, a brilliant biophysicist, discovers a horrifying truth: his resurrected wife is no longer human. 

His creation, a monstrous predator with unimaginable strength, relentlessly hunts him. Despite a chance to escape, Nathan's sense of responsibility prevents him from abandoning his creation.

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With thanks to:

• Gemini for its insightful proofreading
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• NightCafe: for Art creation
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When Science Crosses Nature's Boundaries: From Dolly to Dark Fantasy

 

From Fairy Tale to Science Fact

The boundaries between scientific achievement and ethical transgression have long fascinated both researchers and storytellers. 

Two compelling cases illustrate the powerful parallels between scientific ambition and its unforeseen consequences. One is rooted in reality: the cloning of Dolly the sheep in 1996,  a groundbreaking achievement born in the heart of Scotland. The other is a haunting narrative from fiction: Nathan Milton's resurrection experiment in Jacklyn A. Lo's dark fantasy novel "Melissa."

The Push Beyond Natural Limits

Ian Wilmut with Dolly, the first mammal cloned from an adult sheep cell.

Both narratives center on brilliant scientists driven by seemingly noble goals. The Roslin Institute's successful cloning of Dolly represented humanity's first triumph in creating a mammal from an adult somatic cell, opening new frontiers in genetic research. 

Similarly, Nathan Milton, a gifted biophysicist in "Melissa," pushes the boundaries of science in an attempt to resurrect his beloved wife. Both cases demonstrate humanity's persistent desire to overcome natural limitations – whether it's the barrier of cellular differentiation or the ultimate frontier between life and death.

The Price of Innovation

Melissa: Scientific Horror. Spiritual Terror

However, these groundbreaking experiments carry significant costs. Dolly's creation came after 276 failed attempts, highlighting the harsh realities of pioneering scientific work. The successfully cloned sheep faced health issues and died relatively young. 

In "Melissa," the consequences prove far more horrific – the resurrection succeeds in a technical sense but creates a monstrous entity, suggesting that some boundaries perhaps exist for good reason.

Ethics in the Balance

Dolly the sheep had six offspring

Both stories raise profound ethical questions about scientific responsibility. The "Dolly" project sparked worldwide debates about the limits of genetic manipulation and its potential applications to human cloning. 

Similarly, "Melissa" explores the moral implications of resurrection science, with Nathan's personal tragedy transforming into a cautionary tale about the dangers of unchecked scientific ambition.

The Human Element

Ressurection of Melissa

What makes both narratives particularly compelling is their human dimension. 

Behind Dolly's creation was a team of scientists driven by the pursuit of knowledge and the potential to advance medical science. 

In "Melissa," Nathan's motivations are deeply personal – a love so profound that it blinds him to the potential consequences of his actions. Both cases demonstrate how human emotions and aspirations can drive scientific advancement while potentially clouding ethical judgment.

 Scientific Progress vs. Natural Order

Pushing the boundaries of genetic research

Perhaps the most significant parallel lies in how both stories question the relationship between scientific progress and natural order. Dolly's creation demonstrated that nature's fundamental processes could be manipulated by human ingenuity, raising questions about the wisdom of such manipulation. 

"Melissa" takes this theme to its dark extreme, showing how attempts to subvert natural order – particularly the return of the dead – can lead to horrifying consequences.

Legacy and Lessons

A harmonious blend of science and divine

While Dolly ultimately contributed positively to scientific understanding despite initial controversies, "Melissa" presents a darker cautionary tale. 

Together, they remind us that scientific advancement, while crucial for human progress, must be tempered with ethical consideration and respect for natural boundaries. 

Whether in reality or fiction, the message remains clear: with great scientific power comes the need for even greater responsibility and wisdom in its application.

The comparison of these narratives provides a unique lens through which to examine the complex relationship between scientific ambition, ethical boundaries, and human nature – elements that continue to shape our understanding of progress and its price.

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📚 Dive Deeper into "Hamlet's Last Choice" & Rewards 🎁

“To be, or not to be, that is the question”

Calling All Beta Readers 📚 Dive Deeper into "Hamlet's Last Choice" and Reap the Rewards 🎁

Are you ready to embark on a second journey into the mind of a troubled prince? 👑

We're thrilled to announce the second beta-reading shift for our reimagined tale, "Hamlet's Last Choice." This gripping story delves into the depths of Shakespeare's classic tragedy, exploring themes of revenge, madness, and the nature of reality.

What to Expect:

A Complex Tapestry: This novella blends historical fiction, tragedy, and thriller with elements of psychological drama, gothic literature, and political intrigue.

A Psychological Exploration: Delve into the minds of characters grappling with profound questions of free will, fate, and the consequences of their choices.

A Reimagined Classic: Experience a fresh take on Shakespeare's timeless tale, set against a backdrop of medieval Denmark.

Your Role as a Beta Reader:

Provide Critical Feedback: Share your thoughts on the plot, character development, pacing, and overall narrative.

Identify Inconsistency: Help us ensure a smooth and coherent reading experience.

Spot Typos and Grammatical Errors: Contribute to a polished final product.

Benefits for Beta Readers:

All participants will receive:

Certificate of Participation 📜: A token of appreciation for your valuable contribution.

Final Version of the E-book with Author's Signature 🖋️: Enjoy the completed story in digital format.

Readers who complete the questionnaire in full will additionally receive:

Paperback Copy 📚: A physical copy of "Hamlet's Last Choice."

Acknowledgment: Your name will be included in the acknowledgments section of the book.

Exclusive Opportunity 💎: Three randomly chosen beta readers will have the chance to name a minor character or pet in our upcoming sci-fi novella, "Free Will 2138."

If you're passionate about literature and eager to be part of this literary journey, visit our landing page to learn more and apply: 👉 https://rbjal.com/beta-readers-hamlet

Your feedback will be invaluable as we refine this captivating tale.

🏰 We're planning the second shift of beta reading for our reimagined Hamlet for late 2024 - early 2025. 🗡️

Let's work together to bring "Hamlet's Last Choice" to life!

Jacklyn A. Lo is the Author of Redemption (time-travel adventure) and Melissa (chilling exploration of ambition).

PS. Have any questions before applying? Fill out our brief questionnaire to reach out! 

Find more about the Author: https://linktr.ee/jacklyn.metaphysics.

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Why Pride, Part VIII: The Arrogance Trap 🚫

The King's wisdom.

"If you let your head get too big, it'll break your neck." - Elvis Presley

In our era of social media influencers and "humble-bragging," understanding the distinction between pride and arrogance has never been more crucial. While both involve a sense of self-worth, their manifestations and impacts differ dramatically in personal, professional, and cultural contexts.

Understanding the Core Differences

Arrogance: The Healthy Leadership Killer

Not so humble

• Superiority Complex: Believing oneself inherently better than others, often without justification

• Dismissive Attitude: Rejecting feedback and others' perspectives without consideration

• Empathy Deficit: Inability or unwillingness to understand others' feelings or viewpoints

• Self-Centered Focus: Constantly seeking attention and credit, regardless of others' contributions

• Resistance to Growth: Avoiding accountability and deflecting blame

 True Pride: The Leadership Enhancer

Leading with Compassion

• Authentic Self-Worth: Maintaining confidence without diminishing others

• Achievement-Based: Grounding satisfaction in specific accomplishments

• Collaborative Spirit: Acknowledging and celebrating others' contributions

• Growth Mindset: Embracing feedback and learning opportunities

• Emotional Intelligence: Balancing personal success with empathy for others

Pride vs. Arrogance in Modern Business

Cautionary Tale

The Price of Arrogance

Enron's collapse ( 2001) serves as a timeless warning about corporate arrogance. Its executives' hubris led them to believe they could outsmart the market, resulting in:

• Fraudulent accounting practices
• Toxic corporate culture
• Devastating impact on employees and investors

Success Through Transformation

Apple's journey demonstrates how organizations can evolve from arrogance to healthy pride:

• 1990s: Known for insular culture and market disconnect

Pioneering the future, with true pride

Post-1997: Steve Jobs' return brought:

•   Focus on innovation while maintaining humility
•   Enhanced customer listening
•   Balanced confidence with market awareness

Modern Examples

Tesla and SpaceX show both sides of this spectrum:

• Pride: Pushing technological boundaries, inspiring innovation
• Risk of Arrogance: Public communication sometimes crosses into dismissiveness

Sports: The Pride-Arrogance Spectrum

Beyond the Bike

Cautionary Example

Lance Armstrong's story reveals the transformation from pride to arrogance:

• Initial (True) Pride: Overcoming cancer, achieving success
• Descent into Arrogance: Using PEDs, attacking critics
• Legacy Impact: Damaged sport's integrity, personal reputation

Positive Examples

The True Pride of a Nation

• Serena Williams: Combines championship excellence with gracious acknowledgment of opponents
• New Zealand All Blacks Rugby Team: Demonstrates collective pride through their pre-game ceremonial dance while respecting opponents

Cultural Perspectives on Pride

Rooted in True Pride

Different cultures view and express pride distinctively:

• Western Cultures: Often emphasize individual achievement

• Eastern Cultures: Generally value collective accomplishment

• Indigenous Traditions: Frequently link pride to community and heritage

The Personal Cost of Arrogance

Pride Comes Before a Fall

From my novel "Melissa," a cautionary tale:

"Everything is given by God," the phrase echoed within him, a distant echo from a past he had long forsaken. "Your success too," Melissa pleaded. "Let Him into your heart!"

Nathan looked deeper into her eyes, wanting to reveal something about her inner self, but failing. "Don't hold your breath, Mel," he said finally, his voice filled with an iron assurance.

This scene illustrates how arrogance can blind us to wisdom from unexpected sources, leading to personal tragedy.

Find more about Melissa: https://rbjal.com/melissa.

Recognizing and Managing Arrogance

Lift Your Eye above the Ground

Self-Evaluation Questions

1. Do you frequently interrupt others?

2. How do you respond to criticism?

3. When was the last time you admitted being wrong?

Cultivating Healthy Pride

1. Celebrate specific achievements rather than general superiority

2. Practice active listening

3. Regularly acknowledge others' contributions

4. Seek and act on feedback

5. Maintain perspective on success

Conclusion

In conclusion, the path to effective leadership is paved with humility. 

As C.S. Lewis wisely observed, "True humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less." 

Find Your Inner Peace and Gratitude

By embracing humility, leaders can foster stronger relationships, inspire greater trust, and ultimately achieve lasting success.

In our interconnected world, the distinction between pride and arrogance becomes increasingly important. True pride—grounded in genuine achievement, open to growth, and respectful of others—creates sustainable success. Arrogance, while potentially providing short-term gains, ultimately undermines relationships and opportunities.

Pride should lift both yourself and others, while arrogance elevates self at others' expense. The choice is yours.

With thanks to:

• Gemini for its insightful proofreading
• Claude for supporting with images prompts
• NightCafe: for Art creation
• OIE: for animations

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